It's All in the Story
I was born in South Florida of Cuban descent. I was raised in a very loving and affectionate family. My parents eventually divorced and my mother passed away tragically two weeks before my 18th birthday. Losing a parent was quite difficult and left a gaping hole in my life. I felt like a part of me died that day, I felt numb; indescribable pain. I went into depression, it changed my whole life. I turned to substance abuse and left home. I moved out with a friend and she eventually moved her brand new boyfriend to live with us. I became a victim of rape a few weeks after he moved in. My rapist threatened my life, my families’ life, and much more. I felt like I lost another part of me, my purity was taken that day. I suffered rape for almost a year with my abuser. In the middle of that year, I read a book that spoke about God and it set everything into motion! I felt the courage a few months later to tell my abuser that I was leaving and by only a miracle did he let me go! I came home to detox of substance abuse and everything else I had gone through.
Afterwards I would date men that were abusive, dominant, narcissist, or unavailable emotionally. I would look for someone that was going to be able to put up with my strong personality. What I didn’t understand through those years was that I was mentally, physically, and emotionally numb. I felt that I was never going to be good enough, that I was broken, that I was damaged goods, that I was going to amount to nothing. I was also going through an autoimmune disease that was making me go blind. My life was a train wreck! I hated my life, I hated everything that was going on. I felt no control over any of it. It got to a point where I really wanted to end my life, I was done with having to suffer so much. All I wanted was a peaceful life that brought satisfaction and joy. I wanted to feel full of happiness, self control, self worth, joy, peace, hope, gentleness, and most of all love. I didn’t know how to be any of those things, but I felt a pulling in my heart that I needed God and healing.
One Sunday morning I went to a Christian church, and heard live worship for the first time. My heart felt like it was singing and wanting to come out of my chest! I felt my soul for the very first time have peace, joy, hope, and love! It was like breathing in fresh air after holding it under water for years. I thought I was dead, but I felt alive for the very first time! That day I made a bold decision and decided to give my whole life to Jesus. I encountered radical healing emotionally, physically, and spiritually! My autoimmune disease which had no cure went into remission and never came back. I was very overweight and lost it all after the two years. Look at the pictures on the left for proof! I got coached and mentored for a couple of years and got clarity on my mindsets.
In 2013, I started helping others with healing and other areas. In 2017, I heard of an organization that worked to bring healing to sex trafficking survivors. I got hired and personally worked with the survivors. Working with the survivors taught me a lot about traumas, anxieties, depression, mental health awareness and so many other factors that come into play after being rescued. The pain that felt by the survivors and the nightmares that they had to overcome were steep, but through this process it brought me to a place of self awareness and making a decision. The decision was that I wanted to help even more, that I could shed some light into people’s lives; making them realize that healing is possible. It takes a lot of work and dedication, but is it worth it? Heck YEAH!! In 2019, I decided that it was time to go and work on a broader spectrum and started working as a professional platonic cuddler, I learned that so many were hurting and looking to be held and comforted. I started researching touch at a much deeper level in the medical and mental field, started applying scientific research into my sessions. The final step I took was to get a Christian life coaching certification that helped evolved into touch coaching.
Once I had all the certification and started applying everything from my personal experience, to everything I was taught by my mentors and later through certification gave me the power to put different programs into action and saw results for my clients! They would tell me how much of a difference they would see after having a few sessions with me. They realized that they were missing important steps to get the freedom that they were searching. It was all about having someone guiding them through the process.
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